tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9077624495684601002.post1141718937120059939..comments2023-10-02T09:49:52.837-04:00Comments on Bridget Callahan is Your Best Friend: This Week Has Been Unintentionally Rough, but for no Actual ReasonBridget Callahanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06729980008876962813noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9077624495684601002.post-47985175824824246662011-06-14T22:03:20.546-04:002011-06-14T22:03:20.546-04:00You are mixing up trust with contractual obligatio...You are mixing up trust with contractual obligation. Again.Bridget Callahanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06729980008876962813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9077624495684601002.post-17024692364215378062011-06-14T19:39:29.156-04:002011-06-14T19:39:29.156-04:00Trust isn't an emotion! It's a weird barg...Trust isn't an emotion! It's a weird bargain you make about putting your teeth around someone's throat. It's a deal about where you can sleep and how much.Kingtycoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08927699380769686351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9077624495684601002.post-36032359737058350772011-06-14T10:33:00.424-04:002011-06-14T10:33:00.424-04:00Who said anything about trust?
You humans are so ...Who said anything about trust?<br /><br />You humans are so emotional about everything.Bridget Callahanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06729980008876962813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9077624495684601002.post-71786369574604667222011-06-14T10:14:24.705-04:002011-06-14T10:14:24.705-04:00Seeing someone naked isn't powerful. I have t...Seeing someone naked isn't powerful. I have to see their blood - then I'll trust them. Only then.Kingtycoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08927699380769686351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9077624495684601002.post-69530912451288733922011-06-13T22:22:43.839-04:002011-06-13T22:22:43.839-04:00No, we're not even talking about emotional thi...No, we're not even talking about emotional things or how you "see" someone or what you think about them. I'm referring to just the chemical response your body produces upon seeing someone or hearing their name. Every one has like a ringtone that activates your body a certain way, a particular and unique cocktail of physical responses, most of which are very mute and tiny. But the point is, once you sleep with someone, that cocktail is irrevocably altered ever so slightly, because now your body will also think "well, this is so and so and also sex." <br /><br />But it's not anything conscious, or crass, or weird. It's just a physical thing. It just happens. It's like, if you drink something really horribly, and then everytime you smell it from now on, your body retches a little.<br /><br />But usually nicer than that.Bridget Callahanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06729980008876962813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9077624495684601002.post-29186290834743538012011-06-13T17:08:33.048-04:002011-06-13T17:08:33.048-04:00I like this post. I like most everything you post...I like this post. I like most everything you post. You are a very talented writer.<br /><br />There is a quibble or two, though. I have to wonder if it is a female thing on how sex changes how you see someone. Personally, I don't think it changes for men. At least I have not heard nor experienced 'the change'. Making a man cum is nothing truly laudable... a dream, inactivity, or a hand can do that. Now to make a WOMAN cum, that is something worth being able to crow about.<br /><br />The difference speaks for itself. While a girl with good pootie my have their popularity, a man who can satisfy a woman physically without necessarily making their enjoyment a by-product of 'getting theirs', keeping the goal of satisfying the woman or at least being a part of her reaching at least one climax, paramount, special. The chauvinistic view of sex (IMO) still strongly influences the discussion in a way that lets men maintain the perspective they have on the relationship with their 'buddy'.<br /><br />Sometimes your buddy can play golf with you and sometimes they can't. Sometimes your buddy can go to the bar and watch the game with you and sometimes they choose to do something else. Sometimes men have buddies that they can f*ck, will f*ck or is waiting for a chance to f*ck. Trust me, most men are not doing too much thinking about how they see a woman they slept with other than as a potential opportunity and at worse, a person who is behind the, 'in case of emergency' glass.<br /><br />Whatever a woman was before the fluids were exchanged and the 'wicket' became 'slippery', is how a man sees her after the session is over. Rom-coms (the good ones, anywho) now are giving its male characters depth showing that other qualities that aren't displayed horizontally matter to men. That change is occurring at a glacial pace... so don't hold your breath.<br /><br />If you are too heavy, too skinny, or have weird shaped breast, a brother still knows and doesn't care. That is the thing with that. If you were a head case before the sex, you are still a head case unless, of course, he is a head case too.<br /><br />Anywho, glad you enjoyed yourself (or so the Germans would have us believe). <br /><br />Peace, love & hairgrease!<br />MarkBig Mark 243https://www.blogger.com/profile/10974573439218884164noreply@blogger.com